is a two-and-a-half-day, five-session guided, interactive learning experience, for anyone defining as male, who would like to explore or experience their erotic self, intimacy, touch and connection with another man.
Each session will include:
- structured exercises to open connection with your body and with each other, and build awareness and communication skills between us
- time to explore touch and the body
- reflection time.
The full conSensuality pathway includes fifteen hours of one-to-one, hands-on interactive session time with me, as well as a final online reflection and closing session, of up to one hour, via webcam.
If you’re interested in learning more, the first step to beginning the conSensuality journey with me is a free no obligation online webcam call, of up to 60 minutes. This is your chance to ask questions and find out more about what’s involved, and my chance to make a connection with you, and be sure that I’m able to offer what you’re looking for.
What happens in each session?
Session 1 (3 hours)
Getting To Know Each Other
In this clothed first session we’ll set intentions, make agreements, and set boundaries for our work together. We’ll start to gently explore sharing body space and touch, as well as waking up sensation. We’ll also discover the four quadrants of touch experience which make up the Wheel Of Consent, and which will form the foundation of the rest of our journey together.
Session 2 (3 hours)
How Do You Want Me To Touch You?
In this clothing optional session, we’ll continue to practice waking up sensation and pleasure in your body. We’ll work with Wheel Of Consent quadrants which focus on you - building skills for you to identify - and get - exactly the touch you desire moment to moment.
Session 3 (3 hours)
How Do You Want To Touch Me?
In this clothing optional session we’ll work with quadrants which keep the focus on you – but this time you’ll explore how it feels to touch purely for your own pleasure, noticing your active desires, and building skills for making authentic requests and agreements when you’re touching another person.
Session 4 (3 hours)
Body To Body – May I? Will You?
This clothing optional session invites non-erotic and erotic exploration of all four quadrants. And further opportunities to practice recognising and honouring limits and boundaries, communicating your desires clearly, and deepening your understanding of your own areas of ease and of challenge when touching and being touched.
Session 5 (3 hours)
Access All Areas
In this final, clothing optional, session you’ll have the opportunity to practice giving or receiving touch in two quadrants of your choice, before moving into a final ‘access all areas’ structured play segment, including all four quadrants, and welcoming both erotic and non-erotic touch. We’ll conclude our session journey together with an opportunity for integration, reflection and sharing.
Online Closing Call (up to 1 hour)
Two weeks after our last in-person session we’ll check in with an online call. This is an opportunity to share, feedback, and reflect on what you’re taking away from your experience, as well as discussing any further support, self-care, or personal practice needs you may have.
Location, logistics and costs
Your conSensuality journey happens as a non-residential immersive one-to-one retreat in five sessions, over two and a half days. Working in this way makes it possible to build connection, intimacy and deepen your experience more quickly than working in standalone sessions over a longer period.
This retreat can take place in a number of locations. I have my own dedicated spaces in London, Edinburgh and Findhorn. It can also take place in your home city, or nearest city.
The cost for all locations includes the venue and my accommodation (both of which may be a hotel, or AirBnb for locations other than my dedicated spaces).
My travel costs, from my home to any location other than my dedicated spaces, are added as an additional charge (due to the variable distance of locations), but I will always make every effort to keep this cost as low as reasonably possible.
50% (non-refundable) confirms your booking. 50% (+ travel costs if applicable) is due one week before our first session (this payment is refundable, minus expenses, after session 1 if we decide to terminate the pathway there)